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16 career and college questions to ask someone new

What people do all day — and what they wish they were doing — says a lot. These questions are about interests and ambitions rather than job titles, so they work as well for students as for people who've been working for years.

  1. what did you want to be when you were a kid?
  2. what's a skill you're trying to learn right now?
  3. dream job, no constraints — what is it?
  4. what's the best piece of career advice you've gotten?
  5. do you have a side project you're excited about?
  6. what's the most useful thing you learned outside a classroom?
  7. what does a good day at work or college look like for you?
  8. what would you do if money wasn't a factor?
  9. what's a job or subject you thought you'd hate but ended up liking?
  10. who would you love to have as a mentor?
  11. what's a mistake you learned the most from?
  12. how do you switch off after a stressful day?
  13. what could you talk about for an hour without any notes?
  14. what's a career you'd love to try for a year?
  15. what's the best team you've ever been part of?
  16. what do you want to have built five years from now?

Try them on a real person. kynq is 1-to-1 video for adults, and these are built into every call. 18+ only.

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When these work

  • With students and early-career people who are working things out.
  • When you want advice or a different perspective.
  • When someone mentions their day was busy.

What to avoid

  • Asking about salary or anything that can identify their employer or college.
  • Turning it into networking. This isn't LinkedIn.