16 random questions to keep a video chat going
When you've covered the obvious things and the call is stalling, reach for something ordinary. Everyone has an opinion on a movie, a song or a snack, and a good ordinary question gets more out of people than a clever one.
- what's a movie you could rewatch forever?
- cats or dogs?
- what's your go-to karaoke song?
- what's something small that makes your day better?
- if you had an extra hour every day, what would you do with it?
- what's the last thing you bought that you were really happy about?
- what's the best gift you've ever received?
- if you could instantly master one instrument, which one?
- what's your comfort food when everything's going wrong?
- what's the best app on your phone that isn't social media?
- what's a song you'll never get tired of?
- what's the last thing that made you laugh out loud?
- unlimited data or unlimited chai — one, forever?
- what's your favourite season and why?
- what's a family tradition you love?
- what's something you own that you'd save in a fire?
Try them on a real person. kynq is 1-to-1 video for adults, and these are built into every call. 18+ only.
Start a video chatWhen these work
- When a topic has run its course.
- When you want to change direction gently.
- As a warm-up between games.
What to avoid
- Rapid-fire. One question, then real follow-ups.
- Asking a question and then looking at your phone.